New Me New Life!
For the longest, I haven’t felt motivated to blog and couldn’t figure it out for the life of me. What is wrong with me?! I feel like I’m just going through the motions of life at this point. Is it because I’m a senior in college and no longer have time between school and work to do anything else? Well that can’t be it because I’ve been in school almost 20 years now. Maybe its because I’m newly single and don’t really know what direction I want to take my life at this point? Well thats pathetic too, its just a boy Taylor! We as women always say this about a girl going through a breakup but its true! Is is just a boy. Yes I may love this man, but thats not all life is about, and if it’s meant to be, it will be on it’s own and on it’s own time! Always remember that ladies! Now here’s a guy who says they see a future with you, and so you decide to invest all your time and energy to this one individual. But thats where I went wrong. I devoted more time to him and his life then I did on my own independent future. (He’d probably say I didn’t invest enough.) This was a relationship I seen a family with, and when that reality became just a dream, I became confused. Confused as to how my life should look without a man and family later down the line, and lost with the direction I should be headed in.. But even then, it still didn’t feel like I found the answer to why I had been slacking for so long. That’s because all of these were excuses I made to fit my situations at the time. Situations I should never have let hold me back. Fortunately for me, I quickly jumped out of that mentality and got back to the grind. So from the time of my break up (which took place in March) up until August of this year, I didn’t even touch my blog. But thats ok! It’s ok because I now look back and see it was my time for transformation, it was my time to define who I am and who I truly want to be in just a year from now. It was my time to put my priorities straight and only focus on what my next step is going to be towards ever-flowing success. Six months later, I now know, where I REALISTICALLY see myself, and I am catering my blog for my subscribers to not only feel inspired by women who have already gained success, but to also get a deeper look at my life and see t hat REAL women go through REAL things. To know that going through real life shit is something all women have to endure. So I encourage you all to share your experiences with me also, and feel free to leave feedback as well because at the end of the day, we are all we got!
Our Sisters Our Time is here for ALL women. My blog is here to share the experiences of women we can relate to, women who can inspire us, women that just need our support as their sisters! As women, and as sisters it is easier to share our experiences because the next girl is going through something just like you and this blog was put in place to be that platform! Something wonderful I’ve learned is that, as human beings, specifically in America, we can all win in ALL aspects of life. So its important that we as women never stop having each other’s back. It’s often that we come to this natural instinct of competition mode with each other, not realizing that everyone can have a piece of the cake. If we stick together, why couldn’t we win together? Oh but we can and we will! This is a race to end the gender wage gap, and society’s expectation for women around the world to change! So as a big sister, it is my calling to help bridge the gap between women and men for higher success! We all have a mind of our own that creates individual magic, and that is the beauty of being a human being.
I have vowed to myself that the amount of energy put into my job, must also be put into myself, and individual success equally. Yes, I already know what you’re probably thinking. “With what time am I supposed to make room for my own dreams when I’m at work 24/7?” or, “How am I supposed to make my own dreams reality when I’m so tired by the time I even make it home from school?” Well don’t think like that! EVERYONE makes time for the things they really want out of life, and those who have gained success show those attributes through their efforts and hard work. Think about it this way… If one man’s dream can become a reality thanks to his employees and their hard work, then why can’t those same employees put that much work into their own efforts and actually see their hard work pay off? Oh but I can and I will! And us sisters can, and us sisters will! It’s time to find MY purpose in life and execute it to the fullest! So follow me through my journey as I work my ass off to find success through my own investments with the help of many inspiring women who have lead the way thus far.
This time next year, instead I will have my own employees and thats real! Really imagine how much more successful you could be when you dream it, believe it, and put it into action. They say the hardest part in accomplishing something, is taking the first step. By writing and publishing this blog today, I have already accomplished the first step successfully and now its your turn to do the same!