Finding the Medium Between Settling for Less & Having Patience

Some things way heavier on my heart then others and I thought I’d share my thoughts on keeping relationships afloat. So I’ve been in a relationship going on two years now that has been nothing short of amazing! But don’t get me wrong, of course my boyfriend and I bump heads every so often then act like nothing ever happened 2 minutes later. What couple doesn’t? Just like all relationships, none are perfect. But if there’s someone out there whose made you feel nothing short of being his or her number one, then why not fight for the relationship right? From buying you flowers, to taking you on vacation, you start to become more patient not only with the relationship but yourself because it all seems worth it. But is it really? Is it really worth being in a long distance relationship? Am I doing the right thing by trusting his or her word? Now, he or she has gotten “really busy” as of lately and can’t seem to get a grasp on time management. You one hundred percent understand because you want the best for them so you find a way to relate. But then you realize that really, the only thing it seems he no longer has time for is YOU. Just like any other person would, I’m sure that brings plenty of imaginative thoughts. You start to second guess what your significant other told you, and start replaying back his or her actions towards you in your head. At this point your confidence is at an all time low and you don’t know how to go about the situation.

Well WRONG ANSWER.

1. Always and forever put yourself first

2. It’s ok to ask your ask questions or express your concerns to him or her. (Communication is key)

3. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS